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Because I Love You
This scenario and conversation happened with my youngest daughter, age 2 (almost 3) this morning. It really happened. Nothing is made up or exaggerated.
I’m sharing it here because it really made me ponder. What we discussed sums up parenting in the simplest way. The feedback also addresses the struggles we have at times with friends and family. She was being very difficult and very argumentative with me when I was trying to help her.
I finally asked her, “Why are you being so mean toward me?”
“Because I love you!” she said firmly and quickly right back to me.
I hugged her and realized how truthful she was at only 2 (almost 3) years old. All morning long I thought about her words and reaction to me…
We don’t set out to be mean or to hurt those we love but sometimes we do. Most often the ones we love the most are the people we are the most difficult toward.
I see that. I’ve acted just like her in fact (like a total brat, like a jerk). Just like my toddler, I’m still learning and growing up too.
The good news is that we can realize our mistakes. We can change. We can say we are sorry, hug and move forward. It’s never too late to try, to forgive others, to forgive ourselves for our wrongdoings.
I’m so grateful for my children who teach me far more life lessons than I probably teach them. I’m thankful for all the people in my life who put up with me and love me even when I’m difficult.
Thank you. You know who you are. I love you.
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